Can We Stop Talking About “Us”?

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Something that has been a bugbear for me for a while now is the use of “us” and “our” language by churches. You know the kind of thing I mean: 

    • “We welcome you to join us for worship at 10”
    • “Join us for coffee after the service”
    • “Please join our Facebook page/newsletter list”
    • “Our ministry is supported by your gifts”

Such language is meant to sound invitational and inclusive, but in reality it functions as a boundary marker: “us” on one side of the boundary, and “you” on the other. Whenever we invite you to do something with or for us, the boundary is reinforced. Continue reading →

There and Back Again

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A few years ago I found myself in the throes of a mid-life crisis combined with the effects of burnout — mental, physical, and spiritual exhaustion. In the years prior, I had completed a Doctor of Ministry degree while working … Continue reading →

At Juno Beach

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The following is a piece I wrote after visiting Juno Beach in the summer of 2010. Yesterday, we walked Juno Beach, where the Canadians landed on D-Day. As we walked, the wind washed over my ears like the waves washing … Continue reading →

What’s Missing?

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I remember the last Sunday before the suspension of in-person worship back in March. I remember remaining on my knees at the altar rail after receiving the host—the common cup had been suspended the week before—and getting choked up.  Or … Continue reading →