Something that has been a bugbear for me for a while now is the use of “us” and “our” language by churches. You know the kind of thing I mean:
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- “We welcome you to join us for worship at 10”
- “Join us for coffee after the service”
- “Please join our Facebook page/newsletter list”
- “Our ministry is supported by your gifts”
Such language is meant to sound invitational and inclusive, but in reality it functions as a boundary marker: “us” on one side of the boundary, and “you” on the other. Whenever we invite you to do something with or for us, the boundary is reinforced. Continue reading →